I was just reading this article on how to flirt with girls. The guy who wrote it is named David Black. I don’t know him personally, but this dude definitely knows what he’s talking about.
I’m going to be discussing and referencing his article in this post so I recommend you go ahead and read David’s article first and then come back and read the rest of this post.
Here’s the link to the article:
This article focuses more on flirting in a real life setting (as oppose to over text message) but it still has some great ideas that will help you in both area.
The article basically makes two points:
1) You need to have the right mindset/attitude when flirting with a girl. When you get that right, everything else will come together. I absolutely agree with this point. The right attitude is SO IMPORTANT when it comes to attracting girls.
Unfortunately getting this part right is a little harder said than done. If, like me, you are not one of those guys who naturally thinks this way, then it can be tough to have the right mindset in place, especially when you are face to face with a hot babe. The key to developing the right mindset is to remind yourself if it as often as you can. Remember, we are pretty much trying to reprogram your brain to think differently about beautiful girls. We are trying to undo years to social programing from movies, TV’s, and the media. It’s going to take some time, but you WILL get there.
2) The second point he made was about frame control. I definitely agrees that knowing how to set the frame of an interaction is extremely powerful and everything else he is saying is dead on.
I would just like to add a practice action step to all the theories; learning how to set the frame is a skill and it takes practice to get good at a skill. If you’ve spent most of your childhood and teenage years as a dragon slayer in an RPG video game (oh the good times I had 
then is a skill that is very under develop and it can be pretty hard to all of a sudden do it with a girl you like.
A great baby step to take, and one which has helped me greatly, is to take an improv class. Improv classes will basically make you a master at frame control because you are basically being thrown into a new (and weird) frame all the time. And once you become comfortable setting frames in an improv class, interacting with girls will be a piece of cake.
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Until next time…
Johnathan M.
